Brunei Social Customs
Brunei is a serious but tolerant Islamic nation, so be sure and learn the various social and religious rules which fall under Islamic law before visiting. If you follow their customs, you will have a much more positive experience. The population are, however, very tolerant of foreigners. Don’t be afraid to ask someone what is proper or improper during your stay.
People in Brunei greet each other by lightly touching hands, then putting their hand to their chest in a fluid movement. Muslims rarely exchange physical contact between members of the opposite sex. Dress is very important in Brunei. Always dress conservatively, despite the oppressive heat and humidity. This is particularly true for women, who should try to keep their legs and most of their arms covered when in public. Some main points to remember are:
- Do not point with your finger. Instead, fold the fingers of your right hand under your thumb and use the thumb to point.
- Do not smack your right hand into your left fist, as this carries a rude connotation.
- Do not wear shoes into a mosque. Women must cover their heads, knees and arms in mosques.
- Do not pass in front of anyone who is praying in a mosque.
- Do not touch a Koran.
- Do not pass a gift, especially food, with your left hand. Use your right hand only.
- Do not eat or drink in front of a Muslim during the holy fasting month of Ramadan.
- Do not flaunt the fact that non-Muslims can drink alcohol discreetly in hotels and certain restaurants.
